When I was in college, I have dated with five girls and my roommate thought I was good at hook up dating with girls and they came to ask me if there was any secret to add the charm of a man. Indeed, the other three boys were single since I came to this college. One of them told me he had chatted with a girl known in a hookup dating app for about three months and he was excited to have his first date. I didn’t knwo what happened the very next day because I didn’t hear the news from the girl in a chatting app and I guss it was because she didn’t like my roommate after meeting. Actaully, I really have some tips on hookup dating or chatting with girls and now, I will share with you. If ther are helpful, this can be the best but if they don’t work, you may see this as a story.
The first step is to show your appreciation towards this girl. This is not hard to understand and it means you tell her you think she is outstanding. You should find her advantages at first. For example, if she likes small animals, you can say she is kind. If she likes swimming, you can say she is a swimming sport. In short, you should find out what girls are good at, and then you will praise her. Even if the girl really has nothing to be good at, you can say that girls prefer to be plain and gentle. Anyway, as long as you notice, you will find her advantages. Then, the key step comes. I don’t agree that some boys take pride in a girl through belittling himself. Why? My roommate is such a boy, because he really likes this girl, so he often praises this girl by belittling himself. This is not an ideal way and the best way is to show that you are not bad, at least you and this girl are on the same starting line. Of course, as I mentioned before, girls are good at swimming. If you are good at it, you should show that you are good at swimming with no doubt. If you can't, don't say you can't swim and feel silly. You should show that although you can swim, you have a keen heart to learn. While praising girls, don't forget to express your strengths.
The second tip is to express views from a girl's view. Of course, this is very difficult for most boys. It may take a day and a night if you want to talk about it seriously. The simplest way is when a girl says she is tired or has a bad relationship with someone, she may be afraid to mention it in front of you.You can help her scold the person who makes her unhappy. Of course, don't swear. At this time, the girl thinks you and she are in the same mind.
The two ways are what I learn from my love relationship for the past four years and hope they can work for you.